We bless the Chosson and Kallah that they should achieve, “אהבה, אחוה, שלום, ריעות, love, unity, peace and true friendship”. The acronym for these four blessings is “ראש, head”. What is the significance?
We are showing them the way to achieve this beautiful ideal. If one makes their spouse and their marriage, “ראש, first and foremost” in importance in their lives, they will certainly succeed!